tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15492396.post115359465091565112..comments2023-09-17T08:25:55.536-05:00Comments on hypgnosys: dr. alistair`s continued pontification.....Dr.Alistairhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03308832220555479141noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15492396.post-1154163428677677512006-07-29T03:57:00.000-05:002006-07-29T03:57:00.000-05:00I think that the unconditional love for the self i...I think that the unconditional love for the self is the key thing as you indicate but we need to have it validated (a word which you have used in various contexts) by receiving love. When we have been truly loved by another person - ideally in childhood - from then on we have a self-assurance, because we are able to love our own self. <BR/><BR/>I am fortunate enough to receive a great deal of love from my partner - whom I have met in what some would call old age - and it reconciles me to my own self, which I realise I never accepted in earlier life: always wanted to be different from what I really was.Vincenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297306807695767580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15492396.post-1154043469131941312006-07-27T18:37:00.000-05:002006-07-27T18:37:00.000-05:00the unconditional love for the self? i find that p...the unconditional love for the self? i find that people are desperate to find love in someone else. this seems to me to but a tremendous burden on the other person and let you off looking within.<BR/>i am going through a seperation right now and i`ve met someone who i enjoy being with and i resist the urge to put stuff on her as we spend time in eachother`s company. she doesn`t owe me happiness or anything else. she doesn`t even owe me companionship. if it happens, so be it. it will be a blessing.Dr.Alistairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03308832220555479141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15492396.post-1154022177732230192006-07-27T12:42:00.000-05:002006-07-27T12:42:00.000-05:00. . . or else allow that magical thing called love.... . . or else allow that magical thing called love possess you. It does not happen to everyone. If it happens it may happen late in life.Vincenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18297306807695767580noreply@blogger.com