http://technology.sympatico.msn.ca/News/ContentPosting?newsitemid=083374225&feedname=CP-SCIENCE&show=False&number=0&showbyline=True&subtitle=&detect=&abc=abc&date=True
for a long time now the feminists have been saying that they don`t need a man....especially now that we officially don`t do housework and change diapers.....so i would well imagine that long before the new lab-made sperm is used for the benifit of infertile men, it will be applied to forging ahead wth the new species of amazons.
it begs the question though, what happens to the male children?
but it should be interesting, as a side note to future history, when the arguements start between two career-minded lesbians siring a child without a man......who are they going to blame on the housework not being done when they get home from the gym,work,coffee with friends?
Thursday, July 09, 2009
Wednesday, July 08, 2009
the paradox of choice.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VO6XEQIsCoM
or, why on-line dating hurts relationships.
for those of you that won`t watch the video, though i highly recommmend it, the reason why on-line dating hurts relationships is that there is too much choice.
men and women go on-line and scan scores of faces and profiles and as they whittle thier picks down and actually choose people to communicate with...there is this nagging doubt that they could have chosen the other guy, or that there maybe was a better looking one somewhere else.....even though they date and see the person and possibly marry.
and the feeling persists.
and many who find themselves in relationships from the internet, will take a look at what they missed, now and then.
or, why on-line dating hurts relationships.
for those of you that won`t watch the video, though i highly recommmend it, the reason why on-line dating hurts relationships is that there is too much choice.
men and women go on-line and scan scores of faces and profiles and as they whittle thier picks down and actually choose people to communicate with...there is this nagging doubt that they could have chosen the other guy, or that there maybe was a better looking one somewhere else.....even though they date and see the person and possibly marry.
and the feeling persists.
and many who find themselves in relationships from the internet, will take a look at what they missed, now and then.
Monday, July 06, 2009
Saturday, July 04, 2009
4th of july.
independance day.
freedom from those who would oppress us.
that was then.
what are we left(?)with now?
freedom from those who would oppress us.
that was then.
what are we left(?)with now?
Friday, July 03, 2009
hey liberals.....
http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/afp/090703/world/afghanistan_unrest_us
where are all the anti-war demonstrations and calls to impeach the president for not asking "we the people" whether we wanted to shoot muzzies again?
and what is the difference between this killing field and the last one?
`cause obama said so?
yo, `sup homies?
where are all the anti-war demonstrations and calls to impeach the president for not asking "we the people" whether we wanted to shoot muzzies again?
and what is the difference between this killing field and the last one?
`cause obama said so?
yo, `sup homies?
Wednesday, July 01, 2009
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
relationship problems.
in relationship counseling i hear this all the time....." he doesn`t remember to do this or that, or he doesn`t know what i`m thinking".
now, this is obviously a woman speaking, but it`s true, he doesn`t remember to do this or that, and he doesn`t know what she`s thinking.
now; it begs the question, why?
why does he become a forgetful anti-psychic, when he used to be spot on 100% of the time?
when a man excuses himself from remembering tasks and knowingwhat she was thinking, he will say, "it`s because i`m tired, or i was doing something else or i got distracted with extra work or......"
simple cause and effect reasoning.
she immediately goes inside and tells herself "he doesn`t love me".
and that makes a man cringe.
so, let`s back up. whenthey first met he would get everything done and literally read her mind about everything...movies, trips, the colour of the bathroom wallpaper, what to do tonight....etc.
and why?
he was paying attention to her every gesture, her every comment, her every dream.
why?
he wanted to know, to provide, and to be her everything.
and she, of course, sucked this up...naturally, and became used to his attention, and knows the difference when it changes.
why does it change?
time.
time erodes the freshness and excitement of the commitment two people feel for eachother, and life creeps in.
and life might contain the fact that the woman has taken this attentive man for granted and he wears thin of the prince charming game.
so, lets look at the rewards a man recieves for his attentitiveness....if we dare.
if we dare to suggest that there was an exchange of value between them both and that the man was recieving something for his efforts so freely given, then we might see some reason for his inatentitiveness.....recently.
maybe he felt he was made to feel a man for his efforts in the traditional ways. she "loved" him back.
she acted as his wife by being as attentive and as psychic in return. she loved his attitude about things, she loved his behaviour and she loved his emotional and physical love.
this is the glue that binds a relationship together.
a man and a woman contribute equally, in different ways, and eaches contribution is critical to the survival of the relationship.
so when a woman says "he`s not this or that anymore....". i wonder what she`s not doing anymore either.
and when i hear a woman say, i wish i could find a man who would be this or that with me, i have to ask are you going to be the woman to make that work?
now, this is obviously a woman speaking, but it`s true, he doesn`t remember to do this or that, and he doesn`t know what she`s thinking.
now; it begs the question, why?
why does he become a forgetful anti-psychic, when he used to be spot on 100% of the time?
when a man excuses himself from remembering tasks and knowingwhat she was thinking, he will say, "it`s because i`m tired, or i was doing something else or i got distracted with extra work or......"
simple cause and effect reasoning.
she immediately goes inside and tells herself "he doesn`t love me".
and that makes a man cringe.
so, let`s back up. whenthey first met he would get everything done and literally read her mind about everything...movies, trips, the colour of the bathroom wallpaper, what to do tonight....etc.
and why?
he was paying attention to her every gesture, her every comment, her every dream.
why?
he wanted to know, to provide, and to be her everything.
and she, of course, sucked this up...naturally, and became used to his attention, and knows the difference when it changes.
why does it change?
time.
time erodes the freshness and excitement of the commitment two people feel for eachother, and life creeps in.
and life might contain the fact that the woman has taken this attentive man for granted and he wears thin of the prince charming game.
so, lets look at the rewards a man recieves for his attentitiveness....if we dare.
if we dare to suggest that there was an exchange of value between them both and that the man was recieving something for his efforts so freely given, then we might see some reason for his inatentitiveness.....recently.
maybe he felt he was made to feel a man for his efforts in the traditional ways. she "loved" him back.
she acted as his wife by being as attentive and as psychic in return. she loved his attitude about things, she loved his behaviour and she loved his emotional and physical love.
this is the glue that binds a relationship together.
a man and a woman contribute equally, in different ways, and eaches contribution is critical to the survival of the relationship.
so when a woman says "he`s not this or that anymore....". i wonder what she`s not doing anymore either.
and when i hear a woman say, i wish i could find a man who would be this or that with me, i have to ask are you going to be the woman to make that work?
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