well,here it is.........my favorite subject. unconditional love.
two things here.
1) love. defined as, an all encompasing feeling that just feels good.
2) unconditional. defined as, without condition. automatic. default setting. given freely without expectation of reciprocation.
the added aspect that i always stress is that there is only one person that this feeling applies to in those specific terms.
everything else is part of or is leading to a game.
when you attain this state of unconditional love for yourself you are honest with yourself, you don`t play games with yourself, you don`t engage in behaviours and relationships that can bring harm and you allow yourself the ability to be human.
to try to do this to/for someone else is asking for trouble.
realise that it is always a work in progress.
and imagine if everyone took this seriously enough to stay out of eachother`s shit for a day or two? a week? six months?
with a smile on thier face?