after whatever joy and victory and closure we come to in things we are left, once again, with ourselves. alone and thinking............what was all that fuss and worry about?
well, it was reprogramming something deep within our soul so that we could discern this situation more effectively next time.
i don`t believe in once bitten, twice shy....but i do think that we become more cautious in our endevours and let things reveal themselves more without judgement and condemnation as a result.
if we`ve learned anything.
if not we will put our fears onto others and blame them and hold them responsible for our failures.
if we have learned then we will deal with things with grace and love and courage.
and in that we will have hope.