well, we come to the letter l.
it stands for a lot of words, but only one is important.
without this word, all of the others are meaningless.
the word is love.
but there is more.
the only type of love that makes everything else work is the unconditional love for the self.
this is no simple thing.
this is the thing of wars and of murder and of death.
because people get it wrong.
they think that love comes from someone else.
and so they start to look.
this girl, that girl, this boy, that boy...........
and then these people leave.
and they do, don`t they?
and what happens?
then you don`t feel so good anymore.
but they must come back.
so you do everything you can to get them to come back.
and you feel better.............
but you know, in the back of your mind, that they could do it again unless you work very hard to work on the "relationship".
and that doesn`t sound like love anymore does it?
that sounds like a game of "you`d better do this or that or i`ll leave again".
love yourself unconditionally and you will accept whatever another person does because it will be ok whatever they do.
find someone else who feels this way and enjoy being with them.
keep looking until you find them, if that`s what you want. if you feel the need to be close to someone.......and we do.
it feels good.